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Kick off your next adventure
Want to join a curated community of fun, like-minded, and intelligent people? Night Owls is a s*x positive community offering a range of events from informative talks to fun parties, perfect for seasoned adventurers and curious newcomers alike.
Most of our events take place in our private space in the heart of New York City!
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Play Parties
P.S. I Want You!
February 8, 2026
Bushwick, BK
Playhouse: Erotes
February 28, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Workshops
Touch to Tingle: Partnered Erotic Massage Workshop & Play Party
February 13, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Socials
Erotic Improv
2026
NYC
Upcoming socials include a Berlin-inspired s*xy dance party, another pool party, and more with our friends at House of Yes & Xanadu Roller Arts. Plus, look out for the next bathhouse experience and other fun surprises!
Night Owls regularly gather in groups to attend fun events. Join now and head to our Instagram or DM a host for info!
Welcome to P.S. I Want You!
… a flirty meets sultry daytime play party and brunch experience brought to you by Night Owls and Hacienda!
Enjoy…
🥞 A delicious buffet brunch spread with Mimosas
🔥 Hot Tub, Fire Pit, and Heated Backyard
🎭 Fun performances and games
🎶 Beats to keep you moving
🧖 Relaxation stations to help you melt in
❤️🔥 Safe play areas and k*nk stations across two floors
🍹 BYOB bar
Dress Code:
Red, pink, blush, crimson, rose. Vintage Valentine energy encouraged. Think lingerie layers, silky robes, heartbreaker chic, retro pin-up vibes, or candy-sweet looks with a sharp edge.
Come cute, and stay curious for P.S. I Want You!
Enter Playhouse
🤍 Welcome to Playhouse: Erotes, where desire multiplies, longing deepens, and pleasure takes many forms.
Inspired by the Erotes, the ancient Greek deities of love and desire, Playhouse: Erotes brings three forces to life:
Eros, the spark of attraction and erotic ignition.
Himeros, the heat of uncontrollable lust and urgency.
Pothos, the ache of longing for what is just out of reach.
Together, they represent desire in motion... the glance, the pull, the chase, the surrender.
✨ IN COLLABORATION WITH HIT ME UP NYC
We’re thrilled to run this edition of Playhouse in collaboration with Hit Me Up, bringing together members of both communities in Hit Me Up’s stunning two-floor venue in Lower Manhattan.
Highlights include:
Immersive performances and sensual rituals inspired by attraction, hunger, pursuit, and longing. Unfolding throughout the night, some slow and sculptural, others charged and indulgent, all designed to draw you deeper into the experience
7,000 sq. ft. of multi-sensory space with interactive experiences and multiple rooms to explore
Spacious lounge area perfect for relaxing, observing, and lingering
Themed rooms and curated play furniture designed to bring desire into form
Dedicated play zones stocked with k*nk stations and safe supplies
Full bar and DJ setup to keep the energy lush and flowing
Pro sound and lighting to elevate bodies, movement, and performance
✨ STEP INTO THE NIGHT
Playhouse is more than a show. It’s an immersive experience where the audience can become part of the spectacle. Whether you’re an exhibitionist, a performer at heart, or simply excited to share a scene with a willing audience, this is your chance to submit a scene you’d like to act out live at Playhouse.
The form below includes a list of experiences that we intend to curate, which you can apply for, as well as the option to create your own!
Past Playhouse shows…
Playhouse: Hex Appeal
October 17, 2025
Playhouse: Masquerade
June 21, 2025
Playhouse
April 5, 2025
A Murder Mystery Play Party
Following the betrayals of Murder at the Disco in 1970s Vegas and the sun-soaked scandal of 1980s Miami Vices, the story continues west. Beverly Thrills drops us into 1990s Los Angeles—a world of gated mansions, velvet ropes, tabloid fame, and secrets worth killing for. In this city, everyone’s playing a role—and someone won’t survive the final act.
Pre-register to be the first to get early release tickets and promo codes!
Dark lights, top-shelf temptation, and one fatal cocktail 🍸 Miami Vices kept everyone guessing until the very last beat. Secrets spilled, alliances cracked… and everyone went home with a story.
The lights were hot, the stakes were higher, and the disco ball didn’t stop spinning when Delilah Rose took her final bow. On a glitter-soaked night in 1970s Vegas, suspects danced, flirted, and lied their way through The Boogie Room as secrets surfaced and alibis unraveled.
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Lights Out
Join us as a Brooklyn loft transforms into a shadowy playground. Pulsing techno. Corners meant for connection. Spaces where dancing melts into intimacy.
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Past experiences…
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Expand your s*xual toolbox
Join us for a hands-on workshop designed to awaken your senses, deepen your connection, and explore the erotic potential of touch. Whether you're looking to build trust, turn up the heat, or simply learn how to give (and receive) better pleasure – this evening blends the art of massage with the power of desire.
Part 1 - Guided erotic massage workshop where each partner will be guided step-by-step through a series of techniques.
Part 2 - The lights dim, the music turns low, and the play areas open up for consensual exploration.
The February 13th edition features a special Valentine’s themed area and bonus gift set! 💘
Past workshops…
Explore past experiences
Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory are having a moment.
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