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Kick off your next adventure
Want to join a curated community of fun, like-minded, and intelligent people? Night Owls is a s*x positive community offering a range of events from informative talks to fun parties, perfect for seasoned adventurers and curious newcomers alike.
Most of our events take place in our private space in the heart of New York City!
Read more about free membership and apply here
Play Parties
Beverly Thrills: A Murder Mystery Play Party
April 18, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Off Menu: A Night Owls Dinner & Conversation Series
Ongoing
Manhattan
Workshops
Touch to Tingle: Partnered Erotic Massage Workshop & Play Party
March 28, 2026
Lower Manhattan
The Art of Getting Away: Practical Self Defense
May 13, 2026
Bushwick, BK
Night Owls Boudoir
Ongoing
NYC
Socials
Erotic Improv
2026
NYC
The Empowerment Salon Women/Femmes Only
2026
NYC
Upcoming socials include more pool parties, bathhouses, more with our friends at House of Yes & Xanadu Roller Arts, and other fun surprises! Night Owls regularly gather to attend fun events. Join now, head to our Instagram, or DM a host!
Night Owls Boudoir is a limited-availability, carefully curated experience rooted in consent, connection, and creative expression.
For a limited time, all bookings include a Special Edition Night Owls Gift Set! The set is curated exclusively for this experience with sensual, playful, and intimate items designed to extend the experience beyond the camera.
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🎥 It’s 1990s Los Angeles, and The Crimson Contract is the most anticipated erotic thriller of the year.
Produced by Hollywood powerhouse Vivien Valentine, the film promises seduction, betrayal, and a twist no one saw coming.
You’re invited to Beverly Thrills: A Murder Mystery Play Party, a sleek, scandalous night of secrets, hidden affairs, and career-ending revelations.
Can you uncover what was filmed… and who was willing to kill to protect it?
Characters: Suspects and witnesses will be played by Night Owls members who’ve volunteered to step into the drama. Each has a backstory, a motive, and a killer outfit to match. No script. No filter. Just pure 90s-style improvisation and intrigue. Many spots are filled, but get on the Murder Mystery list as we may still have character roles available!
Volunteer: Our amazing volunteers play an important role in providing a safe and fun experience for our guests. We typically have some comped volunteer tickets available. Email hello@nightowlsmeet.com to inquire!
Expand your s*xual toolbox
Night Owls workshops offer a space to slow down, learn, and explore connection with intention. Designed for curious adults, these guided experiences focus on communication, embodiment, intimacy, and presence. Whether you’re deepening an existing practice or simply exploring new ways of relating, our workshops invite thoughtful engagement in an environment grounded in consent, care, and curiosity.
Touch to Tingle is one of our most highly sought-after workshops. If you’re interested, get your tickets because they do sell out!
Join us for a hands-on workshop designed to awaken your senses, deepen your connection, and explore the erotic potential of touch. Whether you're looking to build trust, turn up the heat, or simply learn how to give (and receive) better pleasure, this evening blends the art of massage with the power of desire.
Part 1 - Guided erotic massage workshop where each partner will be guided step-by-step through a series of techniques.
Part 2 - The lights dim, the music turns low, and the play areas open up for consensual exploration.
The last 4 editions have sold out!
Enter Playhouse
Inspired by the wild underground cabarets of Paris, the vaudeville tease of the 1920s, and the hedonistic energy of late-night speakeasies, Playhouse is a series of risqué, uninhibited evenings where the boundaries between audience and performer blur.
Get on the Playhouse list for early access to tickets, promo codes, scenes, and more!
Step inside 💖
Playhouse: Erotes summoned a night of marble, gold, and living myth. Inspired by the ancient forces of Eros, Himeros, and Pothos, and themed around desire, passion, and longing, the evening unfolded as a gilded celebration of sensuality and devotion. Hosted in partnership with Hit Me Up, the experience spanned 7,000 sq. ft. across two floors, where living statues, luminous performances, and provocative activations transformed the space into a temple of movement, connection, and embodied pleasure.
February 28, 2026
Playhouse: Hex Appeal
Playhouse: Hex Appeal conjured a night of ritual, seduction, and spellwork in motion. Inspired by midnight forests, primal covens, and the haunting whispers of the occult, Playhouse: Hex Appeal was a night where power, seduction, and darkness entwined. Hosted in partnership with Hit Me Up, the evening unfolded across 7,000 sq. ft. of immersive experiences, themed rooms, and intimate corners designed for deeper exploration.
October 17, 2025
Playhouse: Masquerade
Playhouse: Masquerade deepened the ritual, inviting guests and performers alike to step behind the mask. Cloaked in secrecy and seduction, the night unfolded through aerial artistry, rope, chains, immersive audience scenes, and shadowed encounters that pulsed through the space.
June 21, 2025
Playhouse
The first Playhouse show marked the beginning of an immersive showcase where performance, seduction, and participation merged. Blending burlesque, rope suspension, acrobatics, erotic poetry, and audience-led scenes, the evening unfolded throughout the two-floor space.
April 5, 2025
Join us as a Brooklyn loft transforms into a shadowy playground. Pulsing techno. Corners meant for connection. Spaces where dancing melts into intimacy.
Explore past experiences
Based in New York City, Night Owls creates immersive nightlife experiences centered on connection, creativity, and exploration.
Explore, Play, Intentionally
Whether you’re brand new or deepening your understanding, these resources are designed to help you navigate play party and nightlife experiences with confidence, awareness, and care.
Gentle Guidance & Support Note
The information shared in these guides is intended for educational and reflective purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care. Everyone’s experiences, needs, and boundaries are unique.
If anything you encounter brings up strong emotions, discomfort, or confusion, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified mental health or healthcare professional. Asking for help is a meaningful act of self-care.
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